Life has a funny way of reminding us of when we need to get away. It tells us when we need a break, and learning to listen to those queues is possibly the hardest thing for people really enjoy their work. I write this from Miami. No, its not Cuba, but its close enough when you need to not worry about snow. Its ironic that I live in the snowbelt of Southern Ontario and don’t like snow. Don’t get me wrong, I snowboard, and make the best of the season, but driving in the winter makes me anxious.
There are reasons for that. I was T-boned by transport truck on the highway 4 years ago in the winter and that feeling still comes back from time to time when I’m driving in a heavy snow or heavy rain.
We haven’t had much snow yet, but I’ve been overwhelmed by deadlines, and plans, and pondering about my future. That seems to happen every year. I look back at all that I’ve done, and all the things that I meant to do, and either get really excited or really sad. I’m somewhere in between right now, and needed my space.
So I decided to look for a flight to Miami on Thursday night, found one and left this morning. This weekend will be spent doing nothing productive. And I wouldn’t have it any other way.
My wife and I took off for a weekend at the beach (southern California) in November. The weather was perfect and it was very relaxing. It does wonders in rejuvenating yourself. Great move!
That sounds perfect.
I’ll be in Miami tomorrow, but only for a layover. And then I’ll be in St. thomas! Fun 🙂
So jealous.
Wow, love the spur of the moment decision to travel! I think the most spontaneous I’ve ever been was an overnight trip I planned about ten days out…
Ten days is pretty good if you have kids.
Glad you are taking a break. We all need those so that we don’t burn out. Enjoy Miami!
Thank you. It was fun, but cloudy.
I don’t think I could ever be that spontaneous… maybe I should try it sometime.
You should. Its a great feeling.
I definitely used to be much more spontaneous, but now with the pets we need to plan a little more. Hope you’re relaxing and soaking in some sun.
This is why I own birds.
I used to be too ‘broke’ to do anything spontaneous that cost money. Now that I can afford to do things, I’m still too ‘tied’ to situations and commitments. Trying to change that.
I think it comes down to shifting priorities.
I can imagine that experience has left you anxious about driving on the roads with snow. I don’t blame you, but how awesome you can just jump on a plane at a moment’s notice and have a relaxing weekend. Enjoy!
My mom still doesn’t approve of it. On second I should tell when I leave the country.
Good for your Marissa. Paying down debt, saving and investing and all that is good….but you gotta live life while you can 🙂
Enjoy FLA.
Mark
Thank you!
I hope you are enjoying Miami. There are many times when I feel like I need to get away, so I usually go camping and get away from technology.
Camping is also awesome, although we stay in a cabin when we go.
I hope you are enjoying your time in Miami! I usually am more excited about the New Year than sad about what I DIDN’T accomplish in the past year. I’m a sucker for setting unrealistic goals and resolutions, so I am not too upset when I don’t reach all of them.
I try to set goals that are attainable (expect when I wanted to grow 2 inches), so I generally take it a bit harder.
Sounds like a great getaway! I’m from Michigan and I had to go to Texas a few weeks ago. I was so happy to see blue warm skies and not have to wear a jacket! Then I got back home and had to put on two coats while I scrapped ice off my car. Me and snow are done …
It hasn’t been too bad up here, which is really strange since I’m in Toronto.
Have a great time in Miami. I love it there.
Enjoy Miami! I know exactly how you feel about winter driving. I’m awfully tempted to ask my carpool buddy to drive all winter (and I’ll drive all summer).
It might be worth it.
I’m gonna to celebrate this New year in Miami beach along with my friends and family. Happy x-mas and New Year to you.